More and more young men are dating older women: it is common to see women of 40 or more by the hand of their boy toy. The equation has advantages and disadvantages, but we cannot deny that it seems tempting, interesting.

Why is the trend generalizing? Some of these men describe the experience as the best thing that has happened to them in the sexual arena. Read more information about cougar dating

According to Your Tango, these are the top 10 reasons why men prefer a lover older than them, a cougar: 

It's a matter of numbers

The age of the woman in question represents more years of experience, based on a more significant amount of couples. Before they got married, they had some. After the divorce, they have tried with others.

THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR PLANS

They know what they want

What they like and what they do not. Their sexual intelligence comes from years of communication and experience with their partners. They have tried different positions, techniques, and fetishes. The masturbation has helped them identify what they prefer, and have no problem with say, which is very helpful for them, so clueless sometimes.

 

In general, older women have a good time in sex, with their men younger than them, without expecting them to propose moving together or getting married or having children.

WILLING TO INVESTIGATE EXPERIMENT

They Know What The Other Wants

They are willing to investigate experiment and satisfy their partner. Their previous boyfriends/spouses have given them the excellent school, and are eager to put it into practice. They ask, imagine and investigate, in books, in movies, on the internet, until they find out.

They Take Care Of Your Appearance

The stage of raising children was left behind. Their children grow up, and they have more time to take care of themselves, to get beautiful, to read, to go to the movies, to experiment. For men, it is flattering that a woman with those characteristics should notice them.

They Are Not Afraid Of Communication

They prefer to avoid these mental games, that effort to be painful. ¿ Take the first step? Do you make the first call, the first invitation? Pay the bill? Why not? Once in bed, they are willing to say what they expect and what they can give, without detours.

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INVESTIGATE EXPERIMENT AND SATISFY THEIR PARTNER

They Know What The Other Wants

They are willing to investigate experiment and satisfy their partner. Their previous boyfriends/spouses have given them the excellent school, and are eager to put it into practice. They ask, imagine and investigate, in books, in movies, on the internet, until they find out.

Recognize the importance of sex in a relationship

They know that having sex regularly is right for their mood and health, so they do not use the bed as a land of contracts (to obtain other material things in return) or as an instrument of reward or punishment. They have no qualms about accepting that sex interests them as much as they do.

They have confidence in themselves

They know what they are wearing, we could say body, brain, experience ... That can give them spontaneity, security, make them more fun and exciting.

What do young people look for in prominent women?

Gender conventions continue to struggle to remain in the social imaginary. And if it is about love relationships, a young man with an older woman will be seen first and foremost as an "opportunist" with money or social promotion, or "a baby boy" who seeks the "symbolic" (and real) tit provider of care, affection, and food.

In these cases, the view of others is critical and impious. It would be entirely different if the opposite were to happen: an older man with a young girl.

They have confidence in themselves

They know what they are wearing, we could say body, brain, experience ... That can give them spontaneity, security, make them more fun and exciting.

Leave the mold

Leaving aside the external conditions, there is a young man who wants to be with a woman who exceeds his age, because it is his "target." There is also one to whom experience is presented as something novel and, why not, possible.

In both cases, there is the desire that unites them with a lady who outgrows them in age. There are no spurious intentions or unconscious drives that guide the couple's choices.

These men leave the pre-established mold (be with a young woman or with little age difference) and are carried away by the new relationship without reproach or questioning. They are congruent with what they feel.